How to Know Your Crush or Friend Likes You

  1. Strike up a small conversation. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future, language. All girls are different so be aware of the signs.

    • If she constantly makes attempts to touch your hand, she likes you.
    • If she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little higher and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping) or adjusting her clothes. She'll smile and laugh at your comments and jokes.
    • If she's flirty, she may be difficult to read. Flirtatious girls may flirt with just guy friends and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Because most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirtatious ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. They might tap your shoulder while talking to you, gently push you or burst out laughing when you tell a joke.
  2. If you happen to glance at the girl and you see her staring back at you, then this means that she likes you. She may quickly dart her head in a different direction.If you see most of her friends staring back at you this means that she is telling her friends about you and that she likes you.
  3. Smile at her, (natural smile, don't freak her out) if she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away say goodbye to her. She is obviously freaked out by you.If she returns a soft or big smile and continues to look at you then she is interested. If she smiles then darts over to the crowd of her her friends and hides int he group then she may be nervous and curious to if you know that she likes you.
  4. She most likely will never dream off while you talk to her, well she may if you are boring.
  5. Be cool with her friends but dont be too close to where she has to worry about you cheating behind her back.
  6. Notice how she looks at you--she will either hold it for a long time or pull away immediately. Either of these could mean that she likes you. If she pulls away quickly then she is nervous but she still likes you. Which means that you should probably make the first move. If she holds the stare then she is confident and she may make the first move.
  7. If her friends are loud and immature, you'll hear "(your name), (her name) likes you!" Her firends can either be assuming things or be IDIOTS and do this. It will not be offensive to her if you hear this and question her about it. She may deny her feelings but they may reappear later when she gains the confidents to tell you.
  8. Watch for her being extremely mean or extremely nice to you for no reason. If she is extremely mean then she wants you to go away. But if she is playing mean with you then she may like you.
  9. Look for her eyes to light up when she sees you or hears your name.
  10. If you like her. DO NOT FLIRT WITH OTHER GIRLS. if she evens sees you putting your arm around another gril or seeing another girl hug you, she will jump to conclusions and disregaurd you right then and there.
  11. Notice if she touches you more often (or finds any excuse to do so).
  12. If she constantly asks about your status with girls and what type of girls you like then she is trying to hint to you that she is willing to take that "single" status of yours away and make it into a relationship.
  13. If she says,"I know someone who likes you!", then it may be her. However do not jump to conclusions, she may be trying to hook you up with one of her friends.
  14. Get to know her, tell her you like her and just see what she says. But if she does not like you, NO means NO! Unless she tries to be your friend.
  15. If she asks you something like "Have you been asked out to the dance yet?", she's implying that she wants you to ask her out to the dance.
  16. When she is having a conversation with her friends, and you come over, she might stop talking all of a sudden.
  17. You'll know if she likes you if she stares at you constantly and will always laugh at your jokes
  18. If she turns BRIGHT red when you're near her, or when you talk to her. She like you.
  19. Another thing is that don't be jealous that other guys talk to her more. She can still like you even if you aren't her best friend.Usually they will prefer to talk to you if given the chance. So try to get into situations where you can give her a choice.
  20. Last, but not least, if she says, "I like you," then you know she likes you.#If she acts like you to are friends she likes you.
Tips
  • If you're in a room with people, most of the time she will keep an eye on you when you're not looking. Try to keep watch for meeting eyes with her a lot. Even maybe once, it could be a sign that she likes you.
  • If she likes you and she told her friends about you, they might come up to you and start a random conversation about things such as: who would you rather date?, Who do you like better?, who is the hottest?, and such. If they name a list of about 3 people and her name is in the list, she probably told her friends about you and there trying to search for clues to see how you react to the questions.
  • Wear cologne. Girls LOVE guys that smells GOOD! But not overpowering. Also, unless you know she likes the smell, it's a good idea NOT to wear stuff like AXE or TAG. Make sure she likes the smell before you wear it around her.
  • If she likes to wrestle, and she starts it, go along and wrestle, she may enjoy it.(P.S. NEVER EVER start it, she could get offended.)
  • If she really, really likes you, she'll tell you herself, or not: it depends what kind of a person she is.
  • It helps if you're the sweet kind of guy who lets girls hug him. You'll more likely hear about a girl liking you.
  • If you do hear a girl likes you, be nice to her. Don't avoid her and don't seem disgusted because no girls will like you after that.
  • Be yourself, but in a nice way.
  • Honesty and secrecy are big parts of girl friendships so don't rely on her friends to tell you if she likes you or not. However, if you know one of her friends is a complete gossip, it could be worth it to drop some hints in front of her.
  • Compliment her. Girls love when guys compliment them. Remember, don't shower them with compliments, although they may like it, they may see you as having ulterior motives.
  • Friendliness pays off. If she's having trouble with something, help her. If she's not doing so well in a class, offer to help her study.
  • Defend her interests. If she's playing a sport and one of your friends makes a crack about it, stick up for the sport (she'll see it as you sticking up for her).
  • Remember what you learn about her because you can use these bits of information for topics in the future. For example, if she tells you that she has a dog, you can ask her about the dog next time you meet. She will be impressed that you remembered.
  • She might use your friends as a way to get closer to you. Girls are naturally instinctive and pick up on the smallest things.
  • If she looks over at you a lot this might be a really good sign that she likes you or sometimes it could be that she's trying to see if you are looking at her. But if you see that she's looking at you keep looking at her and this is a plus.
  • Avoid, however, agreeing with everything they say as if you are their 'yes-man.' This makes them think less of you. You should be able to challenge them (in a friendly way). For some more intellectual girls, a friendly debate over trivial matters is a big turn-on. Girls look for partners, not suckups.
  • Most girls don't want their friends to tell a guy she likes him. So don't blame her if her friends say something about it.
  • Just ask her out! Some girls are too shy to do it, or if they've been turned down a lot, are afraid of rejection and won't ask. If you like her, ask her. If she says no, then offer to stay friends. If she says yes, then you're in the clear!
  • Different girls do different things. Some girls are very confusing and flirt with you when they don't like you. Some girls don't make the first move, so you have to.
  • If the girl looks at you a lot but when you look at her she turns away, but theres still that little moment of smiling towards each other, thats a pretty big sign that she likes you.
  • Sometimes, a girl will be like one of the guys. If so, most likely, most of her just plain friends will be guys. If so, don't be jealous if you see her talking to them. Most likely, she is talking to them so she can feel comfortable around any guy she likes (even you).
  • When you look at her and she looks at you for a few seconds, some girls will say "What? or What are you looking at?" in a flirty tone. This could be a sign she likes you.
  • At your local hang out: Hang out often, Talk to everybody, and make friends with other regulars, Friends of friends is the best way to meet.
  • Myspace is a great tool for casually building a relationship with her. Leave a comment on her page about something the two of you did together that day. Use smiley faces too. A girl feels special when you put them because she interprets it as you actually smiling.
  • Some girls act aggressive around the boy they like. If she wants to hit you, let her. DO Not hit her back.
Warnings
  • Dont tell your friends that you like the girl! This can make awkward moments, or your friends might hint that you like her to her when your not ready.*Vindictive as they come, girls might try the "jealous approach" and start flirting with your friends to make you notice them more. Be wary of these girls. If you really like her, pay more attention to her and try to get her alone- she might get the hint that you like her and stop trying so hard.
  • If they are smart, and like smart guys, then you probably don't want to have one of your friends ask them out.
  • Girls detest when guys are obnoxious, rude, and show-offy. Although they might show-off a bit (giggling, laughing, hair flipping, etc.), they hate conceited guys. Don't be arrogant.
  • Don't hassle girls. They only have so much patience with "Do-You-Like-Me hassling" and can only take so much. Give them space and then slowly move in.
  • DO NOT keep asking them over and over again if they like you, it gets really annoying and if she said no once, she might mean no, but if you do decide to ask her how she feels about you, then tell her how you feel first.
  • Don't ignore her if she looks your way. ESPECIALLY in a crowded room, if she seems to glance your way more than 4-5 times in a crowded room, she has put the bull's-eye on you. You are the ten point Buck. All you have to do is say Hi.
  • Don't rush things -- if she likes you, she'll come around.
  • NO MEANS NO!
  • Dont stalk her/follow her around. Try to choose the right time to talk to her.
  • Shower everyday!!! being smelly is a huge turn off
  • Don't be a slob. That is a major turn-off.
  • When you joke around just remember to let them know that you are just joking. You can even make a small comment about it afterwards. ex: (pretty? psh. pretty ugly. just joking! actually you're better than most girls I've met.)
  • Don't pretend to like another girl to make her jealous, it's incredibly annoying and will let her down.
  • If they are playing with you a lot then that means that they want to spend more time with you and get closer to you and get to know you better so don't avoid her!
  • Absoulty DO NOT MAKE FUN OF HER FRIENDS SIBLINGS AND PARENTS
  • It's ok to tell a joke once in a while but don't over do it
Things You Need
  • Her Trust
  • your friends to help with jokes and any thing else
  • a good sense of humor
  • THE RIGHT REASONS
  • Information about her (stuff you have in common)
  • A know-when-to-stop attitude

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